Embarrassing Sexual Health Topics
As if wearing a thin paper robe and peeing into a cup isn't intimidating enough, what if you have a question for your doctor that makes you blush just thinking about it?
"Ask it anyway," advises Laura Corio, M.D., a well-known New York City-based gynecologist and author of 'The Change Before the Change.'
"Your doctor has heard it all before. You'll be relieved to get the issue out in the open and you may be heading off a potentially serious health issue."
We have eight of the most embarrassing health questions that women commonly ask -- with possible solutions.
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I have the urge to pee every 15 minutes. What's wrong?
The most likely culprit is a urinary tract infection and a course of antibiotics should do the trick according to Corio. More seriously, you could have a neurogenic bladder -- also known as a spastic or hyperactive bladder -- which is chronic condition that requires treatment by a urologist.
Is it possible to be allergic to semen?
"Some guys are more alkali than others, so if you feel a burning or itching upon contact with semen, it could be an allergy," Corio says. If the problem persists try using a condom. A trip the doctor to rule out infection is also a good idea.
During sex, I'm really dry down there. Is there something wrong?
Birth control can flatten out hormones and lead to vaginal dryness. Antihistamines and other medications can also dry up secretions. Also, after menopause, inability to self-lubricate can be the result of thinning and shrinking vaginal tissue.
"Try an over-the-counter lubricant and see if that helps," advises Corio. If it doesn't, the issue could be emotional; ask your partner to spend more time on foreplay and if that doesn't work, consult with a sex therapist.
I put a tampon in and forgot about it for more than a week. What should I do?
According to Corio, the most important thing to remember in this situation is that the vagina is a closed space. "There's nowhere for it to go so if you can't find it, chances are it fell out on its own." If you've retained a tampon, Corio promises you'll know: It will smell awful. "See a doctor immediately to help remove it and get tested for infection," she advises.
My breasts are uneven, is that normal?
" One foot can be bigger than the other, one arm can be longer than the other, so it's not abnormal for the breasts to be slightly asymmetrical too," says Corio. Size differences can be exacerbated by breast feeding and weight fluctuations. Even though uneven breasts aren't dangerous, they can make you self conscious -- so if you feel that they're aesthetically displeasing, you may want to consider cosmetic surgery.
I've had zero sex drive lately. How can I get my mojo back?
Libido is multifaceted, Corio notes. The first thing to observe is your stress level and how your relationship is going. "I advise my patients to take a vacation with their partner," she says. "If there's still no improvement, go see your gynecologist to eliminate any underlying physical causes. Furthermore, visit a sex therapist to work on the emotional and psychological side of things."
My periods smell really bad. Is there anything I can do about that?
Many women are hypersensitive to the smell of their own periods and the smell is probably not as bad as they think. But if you truly feel there's a foul odor while you're menstruating, make an appointment with your gynecologist towards the end of your period to check things out. "There's a strong possibility you have an infection of some sort that needs to be treated," warns Corio.
How do I know if I have a STD?
If you're feeling an uncontrollable itch, burn or rash, you should make an appointment with your gynecologist right away. However, many sexually transmitted diseases may go unnoticed and it would be beneficial to set up annual screenings and blood tests, most commonly recommended during your annual pap exam.
My hair is falling out in clumps. Am I going bald?
Nearly two thirds of women experience hair loss at some point in their lives.. "From genetic to hormonal to thyroid to anemia, there are so many reasons for hair loss, you'll need a doctor to help pinpoint them, "Corio says. She recommends seeing a dermatologist first, who may then refer you on to another specialist such as an endocrinologist. The good news: Much non-age related hair loss in women is temporary.
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